So let's get right into some practical tips for how to increase your dating options.
Learning How to Approach Girls
First, I need to be straight up honest with you and tell you that learning how to approach girls is not something you're ever going to do by reading articles and EBooks alone. You have to actually get out there and start applying what you learn about how to approach women and you have to risk making some mistakes and getting rejected. Does this make you uncomfortable and are you hoping that there is an easier way to do it?
If so, the first thing that you need to do is develop a way to cope with rejection, because life is full of it. Learning to deal with rejection and disappointment is a sign of emotional maturity, which is something you must have if you want to have any hope of learning how to attract women. A great place to start is by building your sense of personal value and developing the empowering belief that women need you more than you need them.
Think about it, as a man you have plenty of time to develop your attraction building skills and your character... and contrary to common belief these have nothing to do with the way you look. On the other hand, women are more at the mercy of their looks and have to land a good man before time and gravity take their toll on her looks. So they need you more than you need them, and the sooner you learn this, the easier time of learning how to approach girls.
A Different Philosophy
Have you read all of the generic advice on how to approach girls and tried it only to get lousy results? If so, you might be relieved to know that the generic advice such as: smile, make eye contact, make compliments, be confident... blah, blah, blah isn't what really works. Think about it, these are the things that EVERY guy believes about how to approach girls... don't you think women have either caught onto this by now or are bored with it?
If you want to be the guy like a diamond in the rough, you have to master the art of indirect communication. In other words, you will her with your words that you're just casually interested in her, while your body language tells her that you are interested in her at a deeper level.
Why don't most men believe that this is the way to learn how to approach girls? Because they foolishly believe that women think like they do. They think that women are bottom-line thinkers you want everything to be laid out on the table in black and white. Not so. Women prefer a little romance, mystery and uncertainty. It keeps them guessing, it challenges them and it builds attraction.
And that's the difference between men who fall flat on their face and don't get what they want and those who actually know how to approach girls and create smoking hot attraction..